I'm home again

Posted by: TVC15

I'm home again - 07/10/06 12:38 PM

Hi all,
I'm home after a 2 month absence caring for my father who passed away on June 27th from malignant melanoma.
I appreciate all of your prayers and well-wishes that were given previously. I guess God just had plans of his own.
I missed you all!
Being away from home, caring for Dad and watching him deteriorate was hopfully the hardest thing I will ever have to do in my life.
I slept in my Boomer women T-shirt to help give me strength for each coming day.
I already miss Dad terribly but knowing that he is now in a better place brings me peace.
Posted by: Eagle Heart

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 12:47 PM

Welcome back, TVC. I hope you can soak in the loving care that's here for you...I was so very sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. I lost my Dad in 1999, but still miss him more than words can say. It's a hole that never goes away, though for me it did change over time (albeit, for me a long time) from being a dark empty aching pit to a gentle reminder of all the awesome joy and loving goodness that my Dad gave while he was alive.

My heart aches with you...know you're not alone.
Posted by: Dianne

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 01:01 PM

It's so nice to have you back but I'm deeply sorry for your loss. Know that you are in our prayers.
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 01:33 PM

Welcome home! You were in our thoughts and prayers and there were often messages flying around about...how's TVC? Anyone heard?

I am so grateful you were able to take the time to stay with him. What a gift for you and him. So while you're missing him, try to revel in the fact that you were able to share his final days, affirming his life and loving him on this side of heaven.

Now that you are home, I hope you will take time to grieve and reflect as life gets back to its normal pace. Sending prayers of comfort your way!
Posted by: Songbird

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 02:27 PM

Dear Robin: I'm so sorry for your loss! May the Lord comfort you and your family!

Losing a loved one who has impacted our life leaves a void no one, but the love of God, can fill. Please know that we are still praying for you. Take time for your needs, and remember the good times shared!

Glad to have you back, dear friend! Blessings and a cyberhug!
Posted by: jawjaw

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 02:29 PM

Welcome home Robin. There are no words to fill the hole left in your heart, but please know you were missed and prayed over daily. I hope you will find peace in knowing that God is taking care of your sweet Daddy now. JJ
Posted by: TVC15

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 04:53 PM

Thank you all for your kind words and prayers.
I'm just glad to be back amongst my boomer sisters when I need them most!
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: I'm home again - 07/10/06 09:38 PM

Welcome back dear heart...hope you're feeling better now.
Posted by: TVC15

Re: I'm home again - 07/11/06 12:22 PM

Thank you Chatty,
I think it's going to be a while before I feel better. Tomorrow is my Dad's birthday. I'm planning to serve my family hot fudge/marshmallow sundaes in his honor. (His favorite dessert) Feel free to join the celebration of his life by enjoying a guilt-free sundae!
Posted by: jawjaw

Re: I'm home again - 07/11/06 01:17 PM

TVC,
I will be joining your tomorrow in celebration of your Daddy's life. How loving of you to do this! I'm sure you are a chip off the old block.

JJ
Posted by: Eagle Heart

Re: I'm home again - 07/11/06 02:02 PM

TVC, I too would love to join in that celebration...I'm on my way to the shops to run some errands and will pick up a mini-chocolate cheesecake (I've been waiting for a special occasion as an excuse to splurge guilt-free! Somehow I don't think your Dad will mind that I eat cheesecake instead of a sundae) and save it for your Dad's birthday celebration tomorrow! As I savor every morsel, I will also vicariously savor every morsel of your Daddy's life, and will continue to remember you at this difficult time.
Posted by: Rev. Dr. Betsie H. Poinsett

Re: I'm home again - 07/11/06 02:03 PM

Dear TVC, I'm sorry for your loss too - I know how hard it was to help your Dad as my husband died in May after a hard time with liver cancer. I'm so glad you are going to celebrate with the sundaes - sounds wonderful. Blessings, Betsie
Posted by: chickadee

Re: I'm home again - 07/11/06 05:35 PM

TVC, you are in my prayers dear sister. I will take my daughter out for a sundae in honor of your Dad. You were missed.
luv
chick
Posted by: Dotsie

Re: I'm home again - 07/11/06 08:29 PM

What a fun idea. I think I'll treat myself to some special dessert and while I'm munching, I'll offer prayers for your family. It's a win - win.
Posted by: Songbird

Re: I'm home again - 07/14/06 01:55 PM

Robin, I remember you in my prayers. Hope you had a great time celebrating with sundaes- what a great idea!!!u
Posted by: TVC15

Re: I'm home again - 07/17/06 02:48 PM

Hi all,
Hope you enjoyed your sundaes as much as we did. I apologize for not visiting more often. I feel like I'm overwhelmed with all I need to catch up with between writing, housework and tieing up loose ends for my Dad. Your prayers are all very appreciated and I promise to try to be here more often.
Hugs to all!
Posted by: jawjaw

Re: I'm home again - 07/17/06 03:00 PM

We will take your presence ANY time you can be here...JJ
Posted by: chatty lady

Re: I'm home again - 07/17/06 10:25 PM

Its always a pleasure to see you here Robin.