Anno and Eagle, you are right and so wise. I will hold you all in my thoughts. I will reread this post every night and gather more strength each time. Bless you all.

glade you getting some strenth out of all this sandra, it is great when the boomer sistas rallie round....keep your spirits up and your strenth......hope it all comes good in the end.

And don't forget, you've got JJ and CC at your disposal, to do some disposaling, if ya need it. Uh huh...sure nuff.

JJ, do you give lessons?

Saundra, my prayers are with you as well. I work for one of those bullies, too, they can be angry, aggressive jerks, two-faced backstabbers, and opportunistic manipulators. Please keep as clear from this individual as possible. Perhaps with your experience you may decide to work in a real estate office or other sales.

Mustang, sorry you had to go through that. Did you change jobs?

I'd have to get a real estate license (really hard test) to sell on the floor at work and every other person I know here has one. It's one tough business and the real estate market is down now. I only work 32 hours a week, which gave me time to work on my book and now gives me time to market it. I'd like a little more time to work on my book before throwing in the towel and getting an 8-hour a day job again.

Did have a moment today when I wanted an inside job. We're in the mid-90's with humidity and 6-1/2 hours outside in this weather is draining. Come home, shower, eat and take a nap to recover. It takes over an hour to get my body temperature down to be comfortable, never mind those hot flashes.

Tuesday is my Friday and no matter what happens that day at work I'll have two days to recover. Thanks for the good wishes. LOL

Today went just fine. You had my back. You covered me. I carried you with me. Luv & Hugs

Saundra there is no rule about changing your name and put a new picture of shoes, like Dianne, or luggage like Anno, or anything else. Our Lynnie has a new name and so does Renee. That works and you can be safe from the lurkers...I also think you should put your book cover on myspace instead of your picture, but thats just me. You'll notice my face isn't there on myspace or anywhere but here...

Chatty, I agree. I wanted my book cover on myspace, but the person who helped me couldn't make it fit. I see other pics and covers that aren't square and I'm trying to find out how they did that. Do you know the secret?