He sounds like a guy who feels he expresses more...in action. If only it was remotely some intimacy that he wanted..vs. just deep cleaning the kitchne.

However his way of making up to you...will still be his style...but hopefully better improved in his self-expression to you.

As for work, don't apologize for yourself to any direct manager/supervisor. Just carry on your job cheerfully. You are being paid for your work after all. YOu can't go wrong on this..especially if other co-workers see consistent positive work patterns from you.

This is the best dignity you can uphold for yourself ..while you hunt for a better job on the side.
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