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#133342 - 12/04/07 04:16 PM
Re: A nightmare of a family problem today
[Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 05/24/04
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Glad to hear there is someone who can step up to the plate and help raise these young children.
Porn in marriage is just asking for trouble. I would be really insulted if my hub looked at it and trust me, he'd hear about it too!
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#133343 - 12/04/07 05:05 PM
Re: A nightmare of a family problem today
[Re: Dianne]
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Registered: 08/22/07
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Loc: Southern Maine, USA
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I'm going to start another thread on the porn subject. I know you've had some already in the past year. I found them and read entire threads. I just need to talk about it...well, when I get up the courage, at least. I deal with this now, even though it hasn't been as bad in the last few months. Anyway,when I dare!
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#133346 - 12/05/07 07:19 PM
Re: A nightmare of a family problem today
[Re: Dianne]
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Registered: 04/16/07
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Loc: Arizona
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I'm with you on this, Dianne,NO p or "p types," in my home! It is my own opinion that p, degrades women, contributes to the abuse of women, helps to deny us respects and rights, and does much more to cause destruction to women!
Also, I don't need it, my husband doesn't need it.
I have friends from school who could not cut it as a dancer. Maybe their toes were wrong, or their legs were too thick, who went towards p because a dancer is "in like Flynn," in the p world.
They show what can happen to a women in that world, and my sister in law, marrying two men who were heavily into p and abused her, is another example.
The last husband's specialty was "p featuring the disabled!" Imagine his sick mind!
I know that I might be seen as "open," being a dancer, a singer, a model, but NO. I did not participate in ONE nude photo. There is NO nude photo of me in the world!
That is that for me. I am aware others have their reasons for thinking P is ok. I have enough creativity to not need to excite myself or my lover using such a tool.
dancer, romantic that works out fine.
Edited by jawjaw (12/06/07 01:03 AM)
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#133348 - 12/05/07 09:03 PM
Re: A nightmare of a family problem today
[Re: dancer9]
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Registered: 08/22/07
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Loc: Southern Maine, USA
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dancer, I'm glad that you said all that you did. Thank you. I hate it also...hate is NOT a strong enough word. It's foreign to me after the life I've lived before and it makes me physically sick with some of the things I've found. I do not understand at all WHY men get so hooked. I understand some of the sick psychology of it but I don't understand what makes them think it's okay or "all guys do it." NO, all guys DON'T.
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#133349 - 12/05/07 10:04 PM
Re: A nightmare of a family problem today
[Re: ladyjane]
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Queen of Shoes
Registered: 05/24/04
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No, they don't! Why do they prefer some fantasy woman over a living, breathing and loving wife who is in the next room waiting and available? It's like robbery.
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#133351 - 12/05/07 11:45 PM
Re: A nightmare of a family problem today
[Re: dancer9]
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Registered: 08/22/07
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Oh, I really don't want to hijack this thread...but...that, Dianne & dancer is my concern...the hiding. They...well HE says "all guys do it" but goes out of his way to hide it. I don't know why because he also knows how computer savvy I am. He got sooo angry when I called him on it...again...that he flipped over the monitor and claimed I attacked him verbally. Actually I was trying to discuss it like an adult. He says he'll put a computer in his garage just for "it." How does an otherwise sweet, sensitive man go crazy like this? I haven't brought it up for awhile because it means a night of fighting and there's no fight left with me. I want to talk like an adult or not say anything at all. I've seen some of this stuff and all he ever views is bondage...sick, violent, abusive things done to women. It's so awful and it makes me feel numb inside. Not sure what to do.
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