That's a good question Di. I think many grandparents drift way into the background as their grandchildren grow older.

I have to admit, I was no exception in my teenage years. But my grandmothers didn't give up on me. They continued to call, send me cards, presents for my birthday and Christmas. I remember one birthday, where my grandmother was the only one who sent me something, and it arrived on time. I will never forget that.

Later, as an adult, my grandmothers were more important to me. I had a very close relationship to both of them, and loved them dearly.

So, it is up to you to keep that fire going. Even if they should seem uninterested, that too will pass.
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