Thank you for your replies!

A friend just asked me "any plans for V'day?" No, never are any. It's like when someone asks me if I have children...same thing, no. Then I feel worse.

Maybe I need to "get over" this "needing a gift" thing. But all the years growing up, Mom and Dad always celebrated stuff: Birthdays', V'day, Easter, Christmas. DH does not. Suppose it's my fault, too. Then when I get HIM something, he says I do it to make him feel bad since I know he did not get me anything.

Can't win!!