I think I am in the lurking category too. Life gets so hectic with full time and a small part time job, family and home responsibilities, and family illness, that I haven't been here much either.
I have the most wonderful friends in the world! They got me through my mom's serious illness and passing a few months ago. I felt so strong with them backing me up! My friends are my family, since I don't have alot of biological family. Friends are a true blessing!