Hi, thanks for asking. I posted about our lovely memorial services under "Losses" - it was so beautiful - we spread his ashes at sunset on our lake with dear friends. It's been a hard week though - I keep saying to myself "he's REALLY gone!" Wow after 40 years. We thought all of our paperwork was in order -- it wasn't I'm telling all my friends to check theirs -- it's amazing the things we overlooked. Like his ex-wife was the beneficiary on an old insurance policy!!! It sat in our safety deposit box for 30 years!! Luckily she has been most gracious about it and will sign the check over to me. PHEW. Plus I got to the probate court and when they looked at his will it had NEVER BEEN SIGNED - even though it was witnessed. Weird. I'm almost done with the paperwork though, thank goodness. Hugs, Betsie