Oh Dianne, I can feel for you wanting to scream and cry at the same time. You're right in saying that even though she SAYS she wants to forgive and forget, what was done to her is still preying on her psyche. Some experts call child sexual abuse '"SOUL MURDER." Intellectually and psychologically she is saying forgive and forget. But she needs to be healed on a soul level or the anger will continue. She did the hardest part: she disclosed. However, she does not want to delve into it in sessions. Maybe she will get sick and tired of being angry and sad. The anger is hurting her, as if the abuse is still hurting her. She's abusing herself and others with anger. I didn't tell until I was 43 although I'd been in counseling many times. Sexual abuse colors everything black. I hope she will someday see the love and light.