Posted by: Di
When he is NOT domestically inclined - 10/12/07 04:11 PM
Ok ladies...if you have a husband who is not "domestic", how do you handle your anger when he:
1. Does not clean up the area of the kitchen he messes;
2. Does not remember when trash day is;
3. Will not put clothes in the hamper;
4. Looks to me for "what's to eat?"
5. Will not put dishes IN the sink and puts them on the counter where I do NOT like them.
6. Empties cans of stuff he opens and does not throw them away.
In other words, I feel like a maid!!
I KNOW my job is to serve my husband, yet I bust my butt doing things AND running my business. Also, he will not do the household finances. I have asked him to "give me a break" from doing them since I've done them forever...in all marriages. I NEED A BREAK!!
Help! I want to change MY attitude since he will not change!!
Help me to see this thru love's eyes, please!!
1. Does not clean up the area of the kitchen he messes;
2. Does not remember when trash day is;
3. Will not put clothes in the hamper;
4. Looks to me for "what's to eat?"
5. Will not put dishes IN the sink and puts them on the counter where I do NOT like them.
6. Empties cans of stuff he opens and does not throw them away.
In other words, I feel like a maid!!
I KNOW my job is to serve my husband, yet I bust my butt doing things AND running my business. Also, he will not do the household finances. I have asked him to "give me a break" from doing them since I've done them forever...in all marriages. I NEED A BREAK!!
Help! I want to change MY attitude since he will not change!!
Help me to see this thru love's eyes, please!!