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#127030 - 10/08/07 11:48 PM Re: The second (or more) marriage
Di Offline
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Registered: 11/15/05
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Loc: NM, transplant from NJ
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Even when women want the divorce, there is still a period of grieving for what they expected.

Feel the pain and carry on.




That's very true, Dotsie. It's the guilt thing. Thankfully, I have been able to ask for forgiveness from both my X's. One just recently died and I got to see him not long before. AND, he accepted Jesus not long before that! I'm so glad the Lord allowed me to see the change and miracle for which I had prayed many years prior!!


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#127031 - 10/09/07 02:29 AM Re: The second (or more) marriage [Re: Di]
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Registered: 04/16/07
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Loc: Arizona
I think the next marriage is good because you know what to do and what not to do! I'm not good at answering it because I finally ended up marrying a man knew as a child. It took almost no adjusting because we knew each other's family and long ago past where problems start. We were able to say, "you do that because you dad...," and get to the bottom of things. We both marrid other people first, of course, we were too young to date back then. Any marriage(s), I think, should teach you how to have a healthier relationship, right?
That would be a plus, many people I know remain married because that is what they know! They may not have anything in common anymore but they know the other person and are afraid of change!
dancer


Edited by dancer9 (10/09/07 02:34 AM)
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#127033 - 10/09/07 09:08 PM Re: The second (or more) marriage [Re: ]
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dancer, my husband was my high school sweetheart. How corny. But, I agree. I like the way we have known one another's families forever. Actually, he was my older brother's friend first.

As long as we boomer women learn from the mistakes made in prior marriages, and try not to repeat those mistakes, all should be fine.
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