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#133352 - 12/05/07 11:59 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: ladyjane]
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Registered: 04/16/07
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Loc: Arizona
Lady Jane,
I started a p thread in a Very Fine Whine and answered this there...
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Edited by jawjaw (12/06/07 12:59 AM)

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#133353 - 12/06/07 12:43 AM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: ladyjane]
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Lady Jane,
The name of the thread I answered your post in is now called, "your feelings and experiences."
thanks,]
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Edited by dancer9 (12/06/07 12:44 AM)
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#133354 - 12/06/07 04:30 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: dancer9]
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When you know he's viewing it, grab a chair and pull it up beside him. Tell him that if it's fine for him, it must be fine for you too. They sure don't want their spouse looking at it with him.

Honestly, I would tell him that it makes you feel dirty, right along with him and also, unneeded. It would bother me so much that I'd have to tell him that's it's me or the porn and if he chooses the porn, let him know that you will be telling all of your friends and neighbors why you booted him out.
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#133356 - 12/06/07 06:28 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: ]
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This thread has moved to "Feelings and Experiences" as mentioned by dancer in above message. Thanks!
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#133357 - 12/06/07 11:36 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: ladyjane]
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Where the he// is Feelings and Experiences???? Cant find it anywhere on this board.
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#133358 - 12/06/07 11:59 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: chatty lady]
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It's under "A Fine Whine", I think it's called Your Views and Experiences...we didn't want to spell out the p-word for fear of attracting unwanted guests...
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#133359 - 12/07/07 07:57 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: ]
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That's a good idea, Anne! To put him on some of these warning sights might be a good idea. He has now had four wives, made all of them pregnant within the first year and either left or hurt the child and the woman.

I will look into posting about him on one or two of those sights that warn women off those types of men. I'm sure that if he get's off on the charges, he will repeat them. There is no question he is a repeat offender. If he is convicted, he will have to be idenified everywhere he is. If he is not, the chief said that he will at least have the charge on him.
My husband and I tried to reach the case worker for our neices but could not reach her yet. We left a message for her to call...
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#133360 - 12/09/07 03:10 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: dancer9]
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just read this thread all the way through. Keep up the good work dancer.

shoking is all i can say at this moment. thank god someone is doing something.
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#133361 - 12/15/07 01:27 AM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: celtic_flame]
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Loc: Arizona
An update,
My husband and I talked to everyone legally involved and this is what we learn:

My SIL has called the police chief and requested the I phone with the evidence on it back. She also told him that
"if anything happened to my daughter, I will make sure it will not happen again!"
!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
IF the D.A. has already gotten a search warrent for the phone, then they do not have to give it back. If they have not gotten an order, it will go back to her, as her lawyer has probably advised her to get it back to protect her husband.
Child protection services told us that the investigation is still open but they have ruled the case, "interesting and inconclusive." We gave them more information regarding what my SIL has told us and they took this down. They said that they are "blocked," by what they can do legally without enough evidence that this little girl was molested!
I asked them if her father saying he did download father/daughter porn, and my SIL admitting he did sleep with the little girl naked, along with everything elsew was not enough, WHAT WAS??
And so my husband and I called the State CPS office and told them about the problem, basically going over thier heads and also wrote to the office of the Senator for Virginia to ask him why the CPS office had thier, "hands tied," in this matter and explained the whole situation.

We are running out of things to do. I know that the situation will blow up again as the Chief tells us but waiting for that while he is in the home is like asking him to hurt my niece! It's absurd!

So this is where we are. We are waiting this out but know he will get the whole nine yards for the DUI he collected. They will not move on this problem until they get "enough," evidence.

If the I-Phone has a search order on it, it may save the day. If it does not, both of them have started to hide behind a lawyer and my sister in law is saying she will protect her daughter herself. Also, her grown daughter has been given a ticket to visit her mother on the promise of a car. I'm not sure what that will cause...

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#133363 - 12/15/07 07:32 PM Re: A nightmare of a family problem today [Re: ]
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Thank you, Anne, for sticking with me through this.
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