Following the death of my dear mom who lost the battle to cancer on 3/17/01, I was looking for ways to grieve. I felt like life got back to normal way too soon after her death. I wasn't expecting that but life has a way of not stopping for anything. With such a full life, most times I thought of Mom I would somehow get distracted. I have found that visiting the cemetery and writing her a letter while I am there keeps me focused. These letters are such blessings to look back on at other times! After the visits I feel like I have given myself a chance to grieve and reflect onm such an awesome woman. Any suggestions on grieving that work for you?