Lil, Your post about buying cards in honor/memory reminds me of something I did recently.
I had lunch with my mom at the cemetery.
I had planned to sit right there with her, but the weather didn't cooperate, so I sat in the car with my salad, diet soda, and bread, right near her grave stone. I talked to her as though she was in the seat right next to me and it was so therapeutic. Can't wait to do it again.
Mourning takes on many forms!