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#172663 - 01/25/09 07:01 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: jabber]
dancer9 Registered: 04/16/07 Posts: 2411 Loc: Arizona	I just want to ring in here and say that I, personally, find swingers, swappers, disgusting and people who have sexual problems far and beyond the swapping part. they need pros for what they want. I steer clear, way clear! Dancer, who thinks the best lovers are Italians and Dancers! LOLOLOLOL. _________________________ http://www.annalisanews.com/ "Question your privilege"
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#172805 - 01/27/09 10:19 AM Re: What would you do? [Re: dancer9]
celtic_flame Registered: 11/24/06 Posts: 2930 Loc: Belfast/Northern Ireland	hmmmmm i dunno jabber. i have knowen coples to have open relashionships with very strick rules on dating seeing having sex with others. They certinly get to meet their jelousie and insecuritie issues head on. Somehow it still works for them. In this instanse theirs no breaking of trust or chearting. remberring safe sex also 9as safe as it can get) I think the cheating and trust braking is what dose the harm. if swapping is mutulie consensule and no harm is being done then id leave it as the coples owen bussness. Just in case its mistread i am not defending my owen postion in life with this swapping bussness _________________________ "Our attitude either gets in the way or creates a way," Sam Glenn
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#172842 - 01/27/09 07:57 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: celtic_flame]
Dotsie Founder Registered: 07/09/08 Posts: 23647 Loc: Maryland	I'm with dancer. Why get married if you want multiple partners? _________________________ Founder Emeritus of Boomer Women Speak and the National Association of Baby Boomer Women. www.nabbw.com www.boomerwomenspeak.com
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#172855 - 01/27/09 08:57 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: ]
Edelweiss3 Registered: 11/19/08 Posts: 1758 Loc: American living in Germany	Swinging clubs? Oh, I belong to several. hahahahahaha..did I shock you all? The only thing I like to swing on is my garden swing under our big cherry tree. sigh _________________________ As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. Goethe
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#172865 - 01/27/09 10:09 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: Edelweiss3]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	Women with low self-esteem and morals to match, marry for security and then cheat. They never find true love with the husband who is usually a good guy, or the men they cheat with, scoundrels who are usually also married. Swinging, swapping or key toss parties are for people lost and looking for something they 'think' is missing in their rerlationships. What is missing is within themselves and some people never find it, and they never will no matter how many people they bed. _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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#172869 - 01/27/09 10:32 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: chatty lady]
ladyjane Registered: 08/22/07 Posts: 1761 Loc: Southern Maine, USA	Oh, God give me strength. I want to weigh in on this BIG time but need a little time and the words. No, I am not a swinger but it's a huge issue for us and has been since the beginning. It invades my heart and mind daily and am not sure how to deal with it. I will say more....when I dare. As for cheating, I lost my husband of 30 years due to his infidelity and was totally blind-sided. In some ways, I still can't believe what he did was real. When I have time and space here, I will elaborate. _________________________ If we couldn't laugh we would all go insane ~ Jimmy Buffett
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#172875 - 01/27/09 11:48 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: ladyjane]
Lola Member Registered: 06/23/06 Posts: 3703 Loc: London UK	Thank goodness, I'm celibate. I have no one to swing to or swing from. LOL!!! Not that I'm likely to do it anyway even if I had someone to swing to or swing from. LOL!!! _________________________ <><
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#172887 - 01/28/09 10:52 AM Re: What would you do? [Re: Lola]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	Me too Lola and plan on staying that way, gentleman friends or not. Sorry guys out there, but the drawbridge has been lifted... _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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#172894 - 01/28/09 12:42 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: chatty lady]
Dotsie Founder Registered: 07/09/08 Posts: 23647 Loc: Maryland	chatty, I agree with your post #175865. It's very sad, but probably true. Key toss parties? I've never heard of that, but I'm guessing at what that is. Holy Moly. I've lived a sheltered life. LJ, we have patience for when you want to share. And if you don't, that's cool too. I'm sorry you're struggling with this. _________________________ Founder Emeritus of Boomer Women Speak and the National Association of Baby Boomer Women. www.nabbw.com www.boomerwomenspeak.com
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#172960 - 01/28/09 10:23 PM Re: What would you do? [Re: chatty lady]
chatty lady Writer Registered: 02/24/04 Posts: 20267 Loc: Nevada	A key toss party is when group of swinging couples gather together to have what appears to be the normal kind of games, and refreshment party. But when each couple arrives, the man tosses his keys into a deep basket or bowl that no one can see inside of. As the night comes to a close each woman draws out a set of keys ffrom the basket/bowl and the man they belong to leaves with her for a night of whatever they want it to be. The next day he takes her home. These are usually neighborhood couples and NO singles are allowed. _________________________ Take a peek at my BLOG: http://charleen-micheles.blogspot.com/
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