Jabber, you're not obligated to love anyone. Just don't be consumed by hatred, that's all.
thats the best it will ever get for me MB and i now happie with that position.
when in one of my jobs i had to work with sex offenders of other adults and of kids it meet and walloped every boundrie i had. I was in my bosses office weeklie untill i could get my head around working with them. I settled for showing loving behaviour in a professional way as being good enough to allow me to continue work and not being consumed with hate.
think was toughst cvhallenge i did with work..and i allow myself to be humaine with all my flaws and faults.