As to where the lines are, we have to use our common sense and gauge the reactions of others.
is one of geberall problems of internet chatting verses real time chatting. Its so hard to gage the other from what thir saying, sometimes its about knowing how the other generalie acts (making exeptions for odd off days) but we get the mesure of each other over time heer, i think anyway.
If someone said something wildlie offensive to some of the women heer it take of them to point out what could or was offensive or hurtfull.
Thats weer a degree of, honesty, tactfull honestlie is usfull.
it send a message of opps hurt or offense and if the other is reading it writely they can make amends for the hurt.
the weer thre whole process and diologe is worth it if a problem showes up.
it just needs someone to say it up front for that process to begine. We can all learn from it i would think