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#188208 - 08/13/09 06:26 PM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: Whirlwind]
chatty lady Offline
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Registered: 02/24/04
Posts: 20267
Loc: Nevada
Bless your heart and you are so right about the right mindset which does usually appear sooner or later, sooner is always better!
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#188254 - 08/14/09 12:54 PM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 07/02/03
Posts: 12025
Loc: Alabama
WW, let us know how it goes. I KNEW you would do what you felt was best for you. Sometimes just talking it out brings things to light that maybe being so close to the situation, were hidden. Or at least shadowed in the background. You go girl....

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#188264 - 08/14/09 03:10 PM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: jawjaw]
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Registered: 01/21/07
Posts: 3675
Loc: British Columbia, Canada
Like you I would be shocked by the person's "darker" side of himself. Not pretty and not worthwhile for any harmonious future.

WW, good thing you are patient with yourself. Now the future forward with clarity without this guy.
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#188421 - 08/17/09 12:55 PM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: orchid]
Whirlwind Offline
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Registered: 01/18/05
Posts: 261
Loc: Atlanta, GA
Well, I sent the email and then didn't respond to any of his return emails/texts. After a couple of days, there was no more contact. He is very angry and is posting things directed at me on his Facebook page (about how he was lied to, how dishonest people are, etc.) but I don't care about that.

Funny, I had already mentally disconnected from (and lost feeling) for him, I just hate to burn bridges. But, it is sometimes very necessary.

Thanks again gals!

WW

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#188454 - 08/18/09 07:20 AM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: Whirlwind]
diamond50 Offline
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Registered: 01/10/06
Posts: 992
Loc: Honolulu, Hawaii
Glad you cut that cord! You should completely disconnect from him on Facebook, as if you never knew him.
He is more immature than some young adults we know.

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#188459 - 08/18/09 12:35 PM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: diamond50]
Dotsie Offline
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Registered: 07/09/08
Posts: 23647
Loc: Maryland
WW, your mention of a changed mindset is right on. Once you've made up your mind, there's no looking back. I'm glad you stood up for yourself!
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#188534 - 08/19/09 04:26 PM Re: Breaking up is hard to do... [Re: Dotsie]
Dee Offline
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Registered: 06/27/05
Posts: 2561
Loc: Alabama
WW...all this shows two things...you have the capacity to want and receive love and you have the strength to walk away from manipulation and some who's unhealthy mentally. Good for you.

I hope this guy isn't dangerous where you might need a restraining order against him. He sounds about as needy and possessive as one can be.

Proud of you WW!!!!
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