Dianne, I never read this forum until tonight. My heart goes out to you and your girls. Just about everything has been said here already but let me offer some confirmation.
A long while ago, on one of my many days of suffering from this 'survivor of molestation/incest' days, I posted here re: anti-ds. Smile offered several options since I was complaining about the side-effects of the prescriptions. Soon after that, many more BW jumped in and gave wonderful tips on getting the proper nourishments that helps with depression.
Not saying that I don't still suffer but at the time my suffering was from a trigger and very deep and even suicidal thoughts had recurred.
What I started doing was taking the advice...actually trying the proper nourishment tips since the other ways (drugs) were NOT working. When I'd feel myself drowning in the sorrows and agonizing, I go out to get the almonds and the flax and sun light and just a host of natural ways to curtail these effects.
Like Lynn says, 'there is no cure...' but there are ways to help ease the pain. I'm not sure which post these great health tips where in but I will attempt to find them here. I have tried almost each of the combinations of fruits and nuts and herbs.
It took a while to get used to using the combinations but I can say that I really feel better (most of the time). It's hard because sometimes the pain is so horrendous that we forget that there are other methods. However, I've become more conscious of these methods lately and rush out to renew my 'stock' when feeling sick/sad/hurt, ultimately depressed.
Maybe these nutrition tips can be incorporated into your daughter's diet and help her too. Give her a hug for me. I give her a prayer too.