How far along was she Vicki? I've been there as well; wasn't very far along, but nonetheless you have so many images building in your mind of what the baby will be, how it will look - you just love that little clump of cells as if it were laying in your arms already, smiling up at you.
Our prayers are with you. There's not a lot to say in this situation. I know it bothered me when so many people said "Oh, you can try again!" I didn't want to hear that, I wanted MY baby that I had just lost!
Just give her lots of hugs, Vicki.