Dotsie please give me alittle credit here, I would never get too graphic or come right out and say what needs to be said. I try to talk around the answers to the questions I'm asked, as honestly and "carefully" as possible. I would never want to insult asnyone with my answers. Dianne is right however about not knowing the signs and finding out one day the man you love has a SECRET!! Bet there lots of women whose husbands call in that would never believe it, "oh no! not my husband.....?"

I'm with you Dotsie. I don't believe any person would ever bring this pain on themselves. I mean, why would they?

I'm not sure if I ever mentioned this but my sister was married to a doctor for 25 years and they met in church as teenagers. After all those years, she discovers he's having an affair with a man AND is HIV Positive! Luckily, my sister wasn't infected but she reacted just like it had been another woman. Very painful time for her and still is. She's still angry that he "tricked her" but I believe he didn't. In the 60's there wasn't such a thing as gay. You were a queer and honestly, none of us REALLY believed that people actually did that sort of thing with the same sex. So, I think my ex brother in law really tried to be straight. I think that's why he went to church, trying to find a spiritual answer to his problem. I think he finally just gave up. My opinion anyway. But, I can understand how my sister feels too. In truth, she wasn't that happy with him anyway. He was a bossy, control freak.

BTW...it's my fault for asking Chatty so many questions. Sorry. I work with so many women who find out the man they married has a secret. I did with my ex...the abuser. Found out he'd been tried for rape and was arrested for exposing himself to young girls. Yuck. I wish somebody would have told me something...like he abused the woman he dated before me! Would have saved me a lot of heartache.

MixedMetaphors, I know that you are not trying to scaremonger, but Gosh you really made me think. I can be so naive sometimes, volunteering too much info and when I think how much personal stuff I have divulged on different forums already, it makes me cringe! My hubby wouldn't be too thrilled either. He is always warning me about it. We forget that anyone can click into the site and read what we have all written even though they may not post until they register. Gulp!

The way I see it, why on earth would anyone want to go to all the trouble of tracking me down from some anonymous post? I'm not that exciting.

I almost never post in the nude. And when I do, well, it's not all that thrilling anyway.
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Probably nobody would want to track us down from our posts but then again, maybe they would...Maybe something we have said would trigger them off to find out more about us.. Maybe even if we don't think that we are that exciting they might...............

I am all over the Internet. I was shocked...put my name in the search engine and hundreds of "goodies" came up. Reviews on my book I didn't even know existed, etc.

I don't know. Maybe I should stop posting entirely.

Gosh Dianne. I don't think anyone would like you to stop posting altogether though I am going to go and do the same thing as you did now and see what comes up! Gulp.....

C

Mixedm, thanks for the reminder. You are absolutely right. I preach to my children about being careful on the internet. I must do the same.

Well, well, I suppose I should thank Misex-whatever for her concern regarding my job. I signed no such agreement however my own conscience would never permit me from using anyones name (celebrity or not) regarding their bad habits. All this with Kenny Rogers happened ion's ago and he is the one that made it a public issue and that's the only reason I even mentioned his name. That said, I am shocked and dismayed that this wonderful venue for womens feelings has now been made a site of horrors to be afraid of, boogie man etc. I guess we may as well become nothing more than a Forum as so many others are with mindless chatter saying nothing at all, just blabber. No personal stuff what-so-ever. There are many many of those out there. I agree with Smile, never post naked and what a shock anyone stalking me, the phone sex Goddess,(ha,ha,ha) would get when they tracked me down Heck, I'd pay to see the look on their faces...Oh well, was fun while it lasted...