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#77025 - 11/17/05 05:30 AM
Re: Should I go?
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Registered: 10/08/04
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You know my husband does the same thing , brings me coffee in the evening . We drink decafe . He makes pancakes on Sunday morning and cleans up the dishes each night for me . I fix the dinner and he cleans up and does a great job . No complaining here .
I had it good and did not know that . Thanks for the wake up call, girls .
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#77028 - 11/17/05 06:54 AM
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Registered: 09/20/05
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Loc: Pagosa Springs, Colorado
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Well mine loves sex, fixes anything but doesn't cook...yes, it is all a trade off!
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#77029 - 11/19/05 06:09 AM
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Registered: 11/13/05
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Loc: New Hampshire
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Obviously your husband doesn't want you to go. You've gotta do what's comfortable for you and for your family. If you can't go because you know what your family needs, and they totally, I mean totally, can't live day to day without you, so be it. Adding stress to the holidays isn't going to make the holidays a holday. But, if you feel they can survive with some beforehand planning without you for a few days, go for it.
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#77030 - 11/20/05 12:13 AM
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Registered: 09/22/05
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KKathy, that's really what it boils down too, I WILL NOT feel comfortable leaving them at this time. It will only stress me out trying to cram things in between Thanksgiving and the day or so after that when I would've left.
My brother is disappointed and telling me how I never do anything but he also doesn't have a wife and children so cannot relate to my situation.
Thank you for seeing why this is wrong for me right now.
[ November 19, 2005, 04:14 PM: Message edited by: ladybug ]
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#77031 - 11/20/05 03:41 AM
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Registered: 09/22/05
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Loc: Merrimack, NH
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The last thing you need right now is more stress. You have to go with what you feel will be best for you in the long term, and right now it sounds like staying home will be.
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#77032 - 11/20/05 04:44 AM
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Thank you NHJackie, yes, right now staying home IS the right choice.
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#77034 - 11/21/05 06:27 AM
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My brother does live up here, about 45 minutes away. He's coming for Thanksgiving dinner. I would not want my mom to leave my 89 year old dad by himself. He's a typical Italian and he's very lost without her. Think Caesar Romero and that's who my dad looks like. No, she'd never leave him on his own.
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