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#98120 - 12/07/06 08:05 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Dianne]
celtic_flame Offline


Registered: 11/24/06
Posts: 2930
Loc: Belfast/Northern Ireland
I got a fright..........i read mates the way it's mostly ment over heer ie frends....

now i want to go back and review all my posts to measure the diffrence between what i though i had said to you and what actully you ladies may of thought i ment.

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#98121 - 12/07/06 08:06 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Dianne]
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Registered: 06/05/06
Posts: 4136
Loc: American living in Europe
Oh Dianne, I can't believe your Hubby said that's his expensive tie! What a hoot!

My Hubby has never cheated on me…( 31 years now) and I don't think it's because I'm a sex bomb, I'm just a normal woman. It's just the way he is. Some men cheat and some don't.

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#98122 - 12/07/06 08:12 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Dianne]
Jeannine Offline
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Registered: 01/03/06
Posts: 195
Loc: Georgia, U.S.
I've never had a problem expressing, verbally or physically, my sexual needs and/or desires to my husband. I've always felt, in a good relationship, a close relationship, intimacy is enhanced. My husband is the one person I trust with the complete knowledge of exactly who I am.

On the cheating thing...sometimes I think a man cheats for what he may feel is an 'all free' good time. After all, a marriage, a committed relationship means 'responsibility'. Possibly, a man may have the erroneous idea he can have free, irresponsible fun, with some woman who he believes won't expect diddly-squat from him, as to any other aspect of her life.
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#98123 - 12/07/06 08:18 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Jeannine]
Edelweiss Offline
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Registered: 06/05/06
Posts: 4136
Loc: American living in Europe
Oh Celtic Flame, don't bother the trouble. We know what you meant by mate. We understand that much Irish, mate!

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#98124 - 12/07/06 10:31 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Edelweiss]
Anno Offline
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Registered: 09/15/05
Posts: 4434
Loc: Minneapolis Minnesota
I believe it can be very difficult for women to tell their mate (sorry Celtic,:)) how to please them sexually. I was raised where sex was a taboo subject. Anything I learned, I learned without my parents input. Years of being taught to keep quiet about a topic is not easy to overcome.

D and I try very hard to keep a happy and satisfying relationship in every aspect. Yet, it still is sometimes a bit difficult for me to be completely open. And this is completely my issue, not his. But I am more and more open all of the time and he makes me happy, sexually, and encourages me to ask for what I want.

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#98125 - 12/07/06 10:40 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Anno]
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Registered: 08/16/06
Posts: 319
After I hit menopause and the hormones began fluctuating wildly, I found myself expressing a lot more to my husband than he ever expected. He LOVED it, though, and our sexual relationship became, um, different. Modesty forbids my elaborating!

I told him that now that my female hormones were fast disappearing, the male ones must be taking over. I said, "I think about sex all the time now! Is this how men feel? How do you ever get anything DONE??!!" He fell down laughing.
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#98126 - 12/08/06 02:42 AM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: Dianne]
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Registered: 06/06/06
Posts: 322
Loc: Durham, NC
Dianne,

It's nice to hear another married woman keeping the flames going in the bedroom---that's where it was right?



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#98127 - 12/08/06 04:21 AM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: bamgibbs]
smilinize Offline
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Registered: 11/08/03
Posts: 3512
Loc: outer space
My husband and I talk about everything, but the specifics of our sexuality is usually unspoken. He definitely understands what pleases me and I know what pleases him, but we communicate without saying a single word. We're both shy about those things so that seems to work extremely well for us. Sometimes it's kind of sacred and other times, we just have a lot of fun.

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#98128 - 12/08/06 09:45 AM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: smilinize]
chatty lady Offline
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Registered: 02/24/04
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Loc: Nevada
Thats the worst part about being single, also being celibate. Sometimes I really miss a good old fashioned roll in the hay....so to speak!
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#98129 - 12/08/06 01:36 PM Re: Can you express your "intimate" to your mate [Re: chatty lady]
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Registered: 08/25/05
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Loc: Ohio
I second you here Chatty!
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