WOW, these are all great suggestions! I couldn't add much more except, do something surprising, entirely out of character for you, at least what he perceives as character for you....:) Go skinny dipping in front of him or buy a massager and start with his feet and work your way up. Is he worth the effort?

Buy yourself flowers and have them delivered with an anonymous (sp?) note?

Parade around the house revealing more than you would ordinarily....slip some V in his morning coffee..:)
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Aarikja Ann