Sounds like he's pretty set in his ways. I wonder if he likes it that way or could he be thinking similar thoughts?

Without sounding accusing or demanding or needy, could you approach the topic with him? Maybe ask him where he sees your relationship 3 yrs. from now?

My husband told me men start to lose their sexual desire in their 50's or at least they aren't as interested as when they were in their 30's or 40's. He said it is frightening to a man who has always been virile.

Some men are a lot harder to spur into activity than others. Would it help to see about herbs or vitamins or maybe a prescription that would boost his androgens?

Is there some way to touch his very heart? What kinds of things seem to touch him besides coffee with his cronies?? There's got to be a way. I hate to see you so unhappy in your relationship.
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Aarikja Ann