Mrs Maddness,
Its true, our men really do treat us the way we allow them to treat us...

I would calm myself down and take the wonderful advice above, you DO catch more bees with honey, than vinegar. Be outrageous, be sexy in fun ways, and unless he is brain dead (a possibility) he will respond....

I've lost two good men to God in my lifetime and the third I divorced but he refuses to leave me alone, he says he loves me and always will and no women has ever stirred such feelings in him. DAH!!! Now remember I divorced him because we never had sex, he never acted like I was that special. I felt betrayed and like a hag. I became a nag and it just got worse....

Finally, I washed my hands of him and have never looked back, and when I do, there he is, lurking!

OH, hes a nice enough guy (Dianne met him) but not my cup of tea. I can do without the sex, but never the romance...

My other two husbands were always telling me how gorgeous or cute I was and I savored every minute. Hell, we deserve that much....