It´s never too late, mrs. madness. I divorced my husband of 32yrs and 5 children when I was about 53yrs old. I am not saying it was easy..it was a very tough time for me a long while afterwards. But today at almost 60, I am living in a pleasant 1 1/2 bedroom apartment (ok, we are 3-4 people/kids living it and it does get tight,but so what?). The apartment is all mine anyway. And I am living with a man much younger than I am. And life is good..with it´s ups and downs, of course. I have found myself..most of the time.. I do loose myself now and again. My 17 yr old son lives with us and we have a relationship that I don´t think we could ever have had if I was still married.

I am not advocating divorce in any way. The absolute best is aging together I am sure, if you can. But your possiblilites aren´t over at 50 or more..not by any means..there is SO MUCH to be experienced..both old and new!
I truely hope that you can do this with your husband, but if you find that you can´t..it´s ok too.
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