Mrs. Madness,
I just think if your husband doesn't cheat on you, doesn't hang out at the bars all hours of the day and night, and doesn't abuse you physically or mentally...there's hope to turn around whatever is wrong. Some guys cannot express their feelings. Some say things that have absolutely NO substance. Their words are like cotton candy; if you could bite into them, they'd leave a sweet taste but be worthless. Sometimes a spiritual connection is far superior to sexual satisfaction. [This is just my opinion, of course.] I've known women whose husbands were after them to have sex almost nonstop. And they complained big time! Nothing is perfect. Decide what is important to you. And then focus on that!
Prayers and blessings,
bonnie rose

P.S. I too am sorry you have to go through this. Life is short. We need to find happiness!