I belong to several LARGE groups of women and I would say that in these groups of women, NONE admit to being happy. If its not one problem its another. Each envys someone else. Anymore its not who has the happiest life, its who is willing to be happy with what cards they've been dealt.
Believe me, the grass is not always greener on the other side. Cultivate the seeds, plants (people) in your garden so they grow into what you desire them to be. If you spend all your time being miserable, envious and looking at other gardens, all you're going to grow are weeds. Don't we think men have the same feeling as they age...They see youth disappearing too, and know they are on the downside of life. How often do you rub his feet, or offer to give him a massage? You start it, but be sure he knows whats good for him is equally good for you. Even the good men need to be led by the nose most of the time, its just the way their made.