Hannelore, as long as he works VERY hard to fix
everything, you will have many more years of happiness
together.
I have a friend whose husband dropped a bombshell on
her after 35 years of marriage. It seemed impossible,
but both agreed to go to counseling, therapy and what
not and their marriage has never been better : )

I know the same can happen for the two of you.

Above all, pray like you've never prayed before!

(((((((((Hugs))))))))))

Cindy