Hey Hannelore,
Husband, wife upsets are difficult. I know. I was married 4, 14 years to my lst husband. And if that young blonde homewrecker had not come along, I'd still be married to him. I've been married to the 2nd guy for 26 years now. I'm happy, as a person can be married. But I dated that 1st man 4, 3 years prior to wedlock and 17 out of a person's life is a long time. I think of him even yet. And as the song says,
"Breaking up is hard to do." So, I understand. And you're in my prayers. I sincerely wish for your happiness. And that's my prayer. Blessings.
b. rose