I had a nurse-practitioner who's husband had an affair. They reconciled, but it took quite a while. I have a book on my bookshelf called "How Can I Forgive You?" by Janis Abrahms Spring, that I haven't read. It deals with forgiveness (or not) after an affair.

I'm curious, New Leat, if he was so different from John, why did you marry your soon-to-be ex?
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Casey Dawes
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