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We have to take time to find a more spiritual side of us that doesn't need attention from anyone--male or female. An inner acceptance, a self-love and self-respect.



that's a great goal and necassarie somepeople when young have a drive to achive this spirituale state or part of themselfs for others its more to do with waiting untill time rolls on and life becomes quite enough to go look for it eg when kids have left the nest, or carriers at a satisfactorie level, So i agree with you whole hartidlie on this one di.

i'm just wonderring if you think the search for someone new hinders this process or one can get carried away with a new romances the op-pertunitie to take time to know oneself gets lost. Is that your thinking di?

Do you think its possible to do the spirituale search and descoverie when one has a partner or do you think its more comprihensive when one is alone in the world?

just curiouse to what others think on this one?
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