That sounds spooky to me as well, Kate. But then again, I'm very cautious since I live alone. I'm grateful for Trixie's company and protection.

What a pest, too. Constantly knocking and disturbing you. I think I would have to try the honest approach first so that you would "make it clear" that his constant appearance in the yard is getting on your nerves. No, I didn't mean to say exactly THAT to him, but that you really wish he wouldn't come over so often that you have things to do in the house and sometimes, your napping or on the phone. His constant knocking is disturbing you. And maybe leave it at that. If you're honest, then you don't have to be coming up with new things to say to him all the time.

I have also found that cooling the "hi neighbor" and friendly waves, etc...can sometimes help them to "get it." You know?