Ok ladies...if you have a husband who is not "domestic", how do you handle your anger when he:

1. Does not clean up the area of the kitchen he messes;
2. Does not remember when trash day is;
3. Will not put clothes in the hamper;
4. Looks to me for "what's to eat?"
5. Will not put dishes IN the sink and puts them on the counter where I do NOT like them.
6. Empties cans of stuff he opens and does not throw them away.

In other words, I feel like a maid!!

I KNOW my job is to serve my husband, yet I bust my butt doing things AND running my business. Also, he will not do the household finances. I have asked him to "give me a break" from doing them since I've done them forever...in all marriages. I NEED A BREAK!!

Help! I want to change MY attitude since he will not change!!

Help me to see this thru love's eyes, please!!