Hope you do get the painting as a valued memory memento of your father, Kate.

Has your daughter seen this painting that you wish to have? If she hasn't, bring her along to view the painting one more time.

You know your mother, ...sounds similar to mine, in some respects. I share your sighs of sheer frustration...
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