Danita, sorry girl.

When we sold our boat, the guy who bought it said he'd never seen so many bottles of baby oil. We giggled and assumed he thought we used it to sun.

I think that if we focus more on pleasing our men, they might take notice and want to do the same. Be intentional! Take interest. Say sweet things. Do little, thoughtful things that they'll notice like buttering their toothbrush, rubbing their backs, snuggling up while watching TV, greeting them at the door, kissing them hello and goodbye, etc.

Maybe we should begin a list of nice things we can do for them, and then in a month, see if it's made a difference. It doesn't always have to begin with them. It can begin with us.

Just thinking out loud here.

Thoughts?