So true, Hannelore. That's how my husband has come to feel...that we have to live OUR lives. If they come back someday, they'll have to prove themselves before we could ever trust them. But either way, we have to move forward. The ball's in their court now. It's just such a heartbreak. They're so unbelievable. I feel so much for him because I can't imagine just being thrown away by my own children. They definitely have issues and will have to learn the hard way. Of course, what's particularly hard is to have no contact with Alexis, the granddaughter. That is what's really sad. She's 6 now. We got married on her third birthday and she was our little flower girl. By the way, the photo is of hubby and his daughters and granddaughter. I wasn't in it. In fact, I still don't know why I posted it. I really got wound up talking about this!