I have no steps, but just spent some time reading all of this thread. What I take from all of this is that we need to focus on what we have and not what may never be. We sure as hell, can't change others, no matter how hard we try. We can choose our own happiness by focusing on our good marriages, which several among us have. I thnk it's awesome that those of you having issues with steps, have the support of your spouses, or are on the same page regarding the ungrateful adult kids.
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