My dear Hannelore
this is a dilemma for every one.I know many will give help.
My inital thought was that this year you have given Anaiya will have given her a grounding for life.There is no doubt the early years set us up.And caring "others" do this.Our life script hold on to the initial bonding
The story is just starting
Take care of you and hubby .
LOVE
Mountain ash