We are the wise women who having arrived at this stage sense the sorrow and predict the pitfalls
A child know less although can pick up vibes.
I agree with Dotsie..the other Grandmother's skills and culture are an issue.
Children can thrive if they are considered...and Hannelore you must be listened to during the discussions.
My Grandmother was 54 when she took my care on .Grandfather did his part .As did Aunts and dear friends next door.I never felt neglected and indeed had a rich childhood full of experienced adults.My Uncle was 10 years older..a proxy brother.
You sure have had a roller coaster of a year and a bittersweet week
I cant stop thinking about this and little sweetheart.
Mountain ash