Hannelore, I can tell your heart is breaking as well. My thoughts are that the mother may love Anaiya, but she was never ready to take on the responsibilities of parenthood. Whether this is due to immaturity or a non-mothering personality, I can't say. What I can say is -- Anaiya needs love and a stable family situation. Her mother cannot/will not provide that. I hope either you or your son gets custody.
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