Hannelore, I am so sorry that you are going through all of the above.
You are wise to want to keep out of their dramas and live your life in
peace. As long as you are there for them when they ask.

Five of our six children are in their 30's and over the years we have
seen some of them go through divorce and other dramas. We were there
for them, but we did not interfere; just gave them advice and possible
choices. They are forever grateful for that.

Hannelore, we will be here for you always.

Cindy