Adding to Lola...who I think has a point.

I see many parents of growing children standing back while some behaviour is manifest.Staying out too late...drinking too much being rude..and hear them say "what would you do?" giggle as if the actions were a joke.
This would be said at school when parents were sent for.

Fashion has staff to be non directive.and I for one would not want prescripive society.But this isnt society..its your son and his child..
Hannelore...how did you deal with issues when they rose when the boys were little?
Would passion and true hurt at the disintigration of a family be so wrong.
On the dil side...a dream is lost...we share our lost dreams and look backward..here on the forum.
If she only listens to other athletes then she will be hearng biased ideas.Give her time...
This just another viewpoint...
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