Yes Dancer, I guess narcissism is what her problem is. What a wonderful mother you were and are to recognize your priorities, despite your own dreams.

Funny thing is my DIL doesn't realize we have our dreams too, which we most likely can't fullfill if we have Anaiya to raise. But Hubby and I agree that this little angel is more important than being able to buy a beach house or go on a cruise. Those are just things. She is a light that never goes out.

Hah! Meredith! Well put; “the first responsibility she has to face is giving up custody of Anaiya. “