Carolyn I agree with some of the other posts that your finding the ponytail was Rob's way of reminding you that he is still around you and loves you....I'm sure it was a jolt to hold his hair and remember the moment you tucked it away in the envelope originally - but knowing he's in a better place now surely is a comfort.

It's good that you shared this with your friends here - it's what we do - share and care!!

BIG HUG [Wink]