---- Missing is the only way of loving when someone is gone from the present ----

That's really a nice way of looking at things

I really don't think there is a "difference" when you have lost someone you love. I never have thought that I hurt more than someone else -- cuz everyone's loss is just as hurtful to THEM --

I think I miss him so much because of my insecurity right now -- starting a new life and profession - Rob was always my biggest fan -- he knew exactly what to say to give me the confidence to keep on keeping on -- he was my best friend and now I have to learn to trust myself -- not an easy task !!

but i feel him patting me on the shoulder and saying "its okay mom" "you'll do just fine" "just remember I love you" and it gives me the confidence to walk out my front door

THANK YOU LADIES for all your thoughts -- I truly do appreciate all of you