Vicki, when my Mom and my brother died, many neighbours, including some I barely know, dropped cards in our mailbox - I was deeply touched that they would take the time and effort to express their sympathies. Your thoughtfulness was a caring gift from the heart...I know such gestures meant a lot to me during my time of grief.
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When you don't like a thing, change it.
If you can't change it, change the way you think about it.

(Maya Angelou)