Humlan, I thought it a good article in the sense it made me think.

I don't agree with everything he says either. But I do think that some people marry, with the idea in their head that if it doesn't work out we'll get a divorce; especially young people tend to think that way.

I thought he had some interesting points:

" One thing your spouse has coming is the truth, not merely words honestly spoken, but truth that can be seen and felt. The line may need to be drawn, and suffering and endurance ended. But before doing that, consider whether or not you are speaking the love language of your spouse."