Vi, I remember lviing life without Mom shortly after she died. I always tried to focus on her being in heaven. I pictured her hanging out with her parents, siblings, and friends who had gone before her. It was a great comfort.

Try not to think of her being bored. I don't think there is such a thing as boredom in heaven, only happiness forever after.

Also, I couldn't agree more. Life is all about choices and we are in control our of choisces. Therefore we creat our futures. It can be very powerful when we tap into the Holy Spirit and make the choices He intends for us.\

Sending warm thoughts and prayers your way.